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its kinda freakin why people love someone who can't love them back.. people love the same person who hurts them its kinda ironic that the person who make us strong is our own weakness.. as i've heard some of the love story of our members here in PESOS i've stopped for a minute and think... does it worth it all? for someone to still hold on to someone who can't love you back, the pain, the agony, the tears that would drop, the blood ( if you're a mall emo) does he/she worth it? its like asking yourself a question "how can i stop crying? if the one who can make me stop is the one who made you start? i've thought that the saying is true.. what nourishes you also destroys you
all i can say to all of you guys who still holding on AS I KNOW SO FAR, WALA PANG MEDALYANG GINAWA PARA SA TANGA
guys why wont you try to move-on? its kinda stupid to say that you're holding on because masaya kayo na mahalin siya kahit wlang kapalit is that tear a sign of happiness? c'mon! is that pinch in your heart a feeling of happiness? geezzzz guys move on to your life...
let me share you a story, i think this is related to all of you people:

when i was a child, i love climbing trees...
one day when i was playing, i slipped on a branch but i've managed to HOLD ON i've waited for someone to save me but to no avail there's no one there to save me...
my hands are sweating, my arms are shaking, blood pumping in my ears..
thats the time i've decided to LET GO and face my destiny to be hurt..
when im in the ground, thats the time i felt the relief of LETTING GO rather than to feel the agony of HOLDING ON..

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destiny destiny destiny a word that all of you hopeless romantic lean on,
some of you may say ooooohhhh wer destined to be...
some of you even look for signs before you do something..
let me ask you a question...
what if the absence of sign is already a sign?
love is not by destiny
LOVE IS BY CHOICE
love is a choice of two brave people who trust each other not to hurt each other

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In life, we always search for answers because we want to prove ourselves that we had the right decisions..
but the truth is , we can't search for what's not there..
things happen because it's our choice to happen..
that's why we forgive people even if they hurt us, we love people who don't love us, and we smile despite every painful crash in our hearts..
at the end of the day, the lesson you get are the answers to our decisions...

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At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we're made. So, you can waste your lives drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines... that are way too dangerous to cross.

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You know how when you were a little kid and you believed in fairy tales,
that fantasy of what your life would be, white dress,
prince charming who would carry you away to a castle on a hill.
You would lie in bed at night and close your eyes and you had complete and utter faith.
Santa Claus, the Tooth Fairy, Prince Charming, they were so close you could taste them, but eventually you grow up, one day you open your eyes and the fairy tale disappears.
Most people turn to the things and people they can trust.
But the thing is its hard to let go of that fairy tale entirely cause almost everyone has that smallest bit of hope, of faith, that one day they will open
their eyes and it will come true.

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Intimacy is a four syllable word for, "Here's my heart and soul, please grind them into hamburger, and enjoy." It's both desired, and feared. Difficult to live with, and impossible to live without.
Intimacy also comes attached to the three R's... relatives, romance, and roommates. There are some things you can't escape. And other things you just don't want to know

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love someone whom you don't have to be fancy or talk in a special way,
you dont have to mind your manners (balahura k man oh ano pa man) or wear your best clothes and shoes
you dont have to pretend you're happy when you're feeling sad.....
love someone you can laugh at loud with,
you can speak your mind or say nothing at all, you dont have to try hard to impress him/her..
Go with someone whom you can just be you and appreciates you for that....^^

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love can never be wrong..
sometimes you blame the situation or even the person
but no matter who you blame...
if it really wasn't meant for you
it just wouldn't be...

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searching for so-called mr./ms.perfect?
when your out there looking for that "PERFECT PERSON", keep this in your mind my friends..
people change no matter how hard they try not to... as you grow older you matures and with each new level of maturity comes different ideas, needs and wants
you have to find someone who will grow with you, change with you, laugh with you and cry with you.
a person who fills in where you lack..
remember that there's no such PERFECT PERSON in this world but there willalways be someone who will complete you .
REMEMBER THIS GUYS..... MR./MS. PERFECT ISN'T ALWAYS MR/MS. RIGHT

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hay hay hay.. yeah moving is so hard... but know what.. the hardest part of losing someone is not how you cry your heart out till you're dead...
BUT THE FACT THAT YOU'LL NEVER STOP CRYING FOR THE ONE WHO MADE THOSE TEARS FALL.

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Maybe we like the pain.
Maybe we're wired that way.
Because without it,
I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying?
Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.
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